PinnedMember-onlyGirlDadI don’t want to be that girl who lost her dad, but there’s no way around it. Grief is a fucking asshole that way. It’s not like I suffered this unthinkable loss in my 20’s or something. I’m middle-aged for fuck’s sake. …Grief5 min readGrief5 min read
PinnedRoom for oneHow a big purple velvet couch taught me to make space for myself. I name inanimate objects. Not little stuff like plates or pillows or hangers, but the big things that matter. I just never thought naming them could change everything. Years ago, I named my Roomba Rosie as an…Design3 min readDesign3 min read
Sep 14, 2022Daddy’s Girl — A eulogy for my fatherThis is the post I hoped never to write. My delightful, quirky & remarkable father, William Simon, passed away at the age of 84 on Sunday September 11th, 2022 at 9:01 AM. …Grief3 min readGrief3 min read
Aug 13, 2022The problem with caringLet me apologize before I even write a word. This piece will probably suck beyond everything that’s ever sucked before since I am so raw. It’s going to make people uncomfortable and I’m sure I’ll say all the wrong things. Sorry. TL;DR | My dad is sick. Skipping to the…Cancer4 min readCancer4 min read
Apr 12, 2022Using color on the webDo’s, don’ts and everything in between “Color is the place where our brain and the universe meet.” — Paul Klee Color on the web conjures strong feelings. …Web Design9 min readWeb Design9 min read
Mar 12, 2021Thanks, Pandemic.It’s been a year since COVID-19 shut down the world, and I am better off for it. Wait wait wait. Before you cancel my introverted ass, call me tone deaf and get your “wtf is wrong with you” trigger finger ready to fly in the comments, just hear me out. …Pandemic3 min readPandemic3 min read
Jan 13, 2021RememberingHow to even say goodbye? Dearest Chris, The only way I can do this to pretend I just pulled up a stool in mom’s kitchen and am talking to you like I always did. And since I can’t even be there because of COVID, I am stuck with a letter. …Memorial3 min readMemorial3 min read
Jul 26, 2020I self isolated for 22 weeks, and all I got was this lousy pandemic. And spies.I used to joke that I’ve been preparing for this pandemic my whole life. Although that was probably funnier back in March. After 22 weeks at home, things have gotten a little weird. Self-isolation was a perfect fit for me at the start. I am a natural introvert. I have…Covid-195 min readCovid-195 min read
Mar 16, 2020The Case for Empathyem·pa·thy Noun | The ability to understand and share the feelings of another. There is no doubt that Coronavirus has quickly impacted our world in ways we never expected. All the disturbing news about this global pandemic is difficult enough without also having to deal with the sudden lifestyle changes…Coronavirus5 min readCoronavirus5 min read
Dec 29, 2019Go home 2019. You’re Drunk.It’s been a year. Don’t get me wrong. There’s been a lot of good stuff this year— Lizzo! Greta! Turning VA blue! Baby Shark! Impeachment! But personally, 2019 kicked me in the teeth. And while I am looking forward to 2020, you can’t plan for the future without understanding the…Life3 min readLife3 min read